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Re:You're not uncool. Making friends as an adult is just hard by baby on Tuesday April 18, 2023 @07:00PM (#35621678)
I don't think we disagree, my point would be that you need both. But if you rely on 1:1 only you're either quickly going to lose friends or spend all your time in 1:1 (or not make new friends at all, as you can't make new friends in 1:1)
Re:You're not uncool. Making friends as an adult is just hard by rjh29 on Wednesday April 19, 2023 @03:13PM (#35632096)
This is me, I spend all my time on 1:1 and I have a small but very close set of friends, and no desire to make any more.

It's like a romantic relationship - once you find "that person", you're done.