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Re:You're not uncool. Making friends as an adult is just hard by prmoustache on Tuesday April 18, 2023 @06:14AM (#35612060)
You shouldn't obsess on having everybody or even the majority of your groups together. Besides your friends also have friends and vice-versa that aren't part of your circle so you shouldn't even think of having any kind of exclusivity.

People come and go in your life.

What I am struggle with aren't local acquaintances but friends that aren't local to me anymore.

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Re:You're not uncool. Making friends as an adult is just hard by genocidicbunny on Tuesday April 18, 2023 @06:58PM (#35621650)
At this point, the obsession isn't about having everybody or the majority present, its about having the minority, or even anyone at all, present.
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