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Re:You'd Be Happier Living Closer to Friends. Why Don't You? by bavell on Monday April 17, 2023 @11:39PM (#35609699)
Huh? Growing up in the burbs (90's and 00's) I had dozens of kids around my age within biking distance.
Re:You'd Be Happier Living Closer to Friends. Why Don't You? by epistasis on Tuesday April 18, 2023 @12:48AM (#35610066)
This is changing, kids are riding a lot less than in the 00s (here's one of many articles):

https://www.washingtonpost.com/sports/2019/06/04/fewer-kids-...

It may be social, in that letting kids roam on their own is not as acceptable and could get you in trouble with courts. Also, "cars" are more dangerous these days, ans they shift into more trucks and SUVs with massive blind spots and distracted drivers, and there have been many efforts to eliminate penalties for speeding, and the difference between 20mph and 30mph is literally a ton of death.

The number 1 thing I would love for my child is to live in a place where I was not in constant fear of cars when on the sidewalk or street. It wasn't like that when I was a kid in the suburbs in the 80s. And I will likely have to leave the US to find what I want.

Re:You'd Be Happier Living Closer to Friends. Why Don't You? by midoridensha on Tuesday April 18, 2023 @02:28AM (#35610621)
>And I will likely have to leave the US to find what I want.

Yep, that's exactly what I did. I'm in Tokyo now, and it's mostly what the "NotJustBikes" crowd is asking for: great public transit, walkability, lots of bike-riding, etc. I see kids walking or riding bikes by themselves all the time. I finally realized I was never going to be able to live in this kind of society in the US, so I found a place that had the lifestyle I wanted and moved there.

Re:You'd Be Happier Living Closer to Friends. Why Don't You? by ta1243 on Tuesday April 18, 2023 @05:11AM (#35611652)
Helmet rules are a key part to that, it encourages the incorrect belief that riding a bike is dangerous (not to mention being something else to deal with), thus fewer do it
Re:You'd Be Happier Living Closer to Friends. Why Don't You? by phil21 on Tuesday April 18, 2023 @11:07AM (#35614972)
I was an extremely active kid, biking everywhere until the street lights came on pretty much every day.

The helmet safety panic really crushed a lot of my enjoyment of life. Made riding a bike utterly miserable for me - both socially with my peer group at the time, as well as it being massively uncomfortable to wear. Not to mention getting in trouble dozens of times for leaving it at whatever location.

I usually would end up biking outside sight distance of the parents and ditch it under a bush for later retrieval. But once this rule was enforced on me, my biking was severely curtailed as it didn't have the same simple joy of freedom it had beforehand.

Re:You'd Be Happier Living Closer to Friends. Why Don't You? by meowtimemania on Tuesday April 18, 2023 @04:22AM (#35611367)
I had the same experience. My memory of first grade until high school is getting home from school and hopping on my bike to ride to a friends house. I hope my kids can experience the same.