You're not uncool. Making friends as an adult is just hard

Re:You're not uncool. Making friends as an adult is just hard by fisherjeff on Monday April 17, 2023 @11:20PM (#35609589)

I don’t think they were saying that the 1:1 time itself was a chore, so much as the logistics behind them. I completely agree.

Another nice thing about group hangouts is that not everyone needs to be there so it makes scheduling a lot simpler.

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Re:You're not uncool. Making friends as an adult is just hard by rjh29 on Monday April 17, 2023 @11:28PM (#35609631)

Just the wording in that particular post made it seem like a lot of work. I have had 'friends' like that in the past, and if you need things to 'pile up' so you can hold a conversation, and you find it hard to motivate yourself to do the logistics and make time, maybe they're not the most compatible people for you.

However I can't judge, because I personally dislike group hangouts, so I can understand if conversely someone finds arranging 1:1 meetings difficult.

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