Agreed, i think the "telling other people what to do" thing is something i haven't seen brought up enough. Seems like the whole current social media is built on defending some group by telling other people that they're bad people for speaking the way they always have and that they must change themselves to fit your opinions, otherwise they're forever doomed to be "bad people". The bad person part is implicit in the command. When did people get so comfortable commanding others and demeaning their thoughts and agency?