I really was focusing on low volume, long jobs, where RabbitMQ is overkill, and workers respawn does not need proper dequeuing.
One aspect to keep in mind is also the kind of use case, when the job is just a subtask, and the final result is stored, on completion it produces as message to be handled for continuation, you have direct id tracking without further additional logics, and a simple ack is not enough.
For eg, sending emails, the jobs does not create further message, and no shared mutable state occurs. The scenario with ack on end of process covers all cases.
You’re right that if the business-processing is a long heavy-weight operation then that should be decoupled from the message queue and failure handled internally, in which case your definition does make sense as an intermediary hand-off step. Just in the general case, I think most people wouldn’t consider hand-off alone as processing.
Having the jobs processing itself being independent of the messaging solution seems like good way to go as the actual message implementation, might have to change. I really think that you don't want ossification of your messaging implementation detail on your business logics.
I did not pretend that it was the only solution, merely just something I know would be reliable, an implicit «one way to it».