Re:The Pornography Paradox
by antibasilisk on Monday April 10, 2023 @07:36PM
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Desiring sex is literally the foundation for all sexual relationships. Otherwise there's not much difference to hanging out with your bros.
If that were the foundation of my marriage I would have thrown out my wife to get a newer model years ago.
Desire for sex is a horribly hollow foundation for a relationship.
To onboard the tremendous time, attention, work, and emotional stability that a good relationship demands, or that a bad relationship totally incinerates to nobody's benefit, while coming from a place of "I wanna get my dick wet" or "my sadness would be fixed if only I conjoined my life with another human being" sounds disastrous.