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Re:Iran installs cameras in public places to identify, penal... by otikik on Saturday April 08, 2023 @05:37PM (#35497882)
I’m a reasonably-big, dark skinned guy.

I tend to elicit the feeling you are mentioning often, without intending to. I have seen old women move away from me while we were waiting to cross the street. I have been stopped by police because “I was acting suspicious” (I was walking to the gym, after work).

It’s not a nice feeling, scaring people just by being around.

Because of this, I never wear the hood of my hoodie. In general I have to wear as unthreatening clothes as I can. And I avoid dark streets, because someone can see me as a threat and fear makes people do irrational things.

We would all benefit from less fear.

Re:Iran installs cameras in public places to identify, penal... by tacon on Saturday April 08, 2023 @06:55PM (#35498453)
I once read in a book about sales about a tall, well-built athletic guy who was in outside sales. His problem: whenever he walked into a prospect's office, he could detect fear just from his imposing presence. He solved this problem by arranging to stumble as he crossed the threshold, which effectively allayed the latent fear.
Re:Iran installs cameras in public places to identify, penal... by otikik on Saturday April 08, 2023 @07:30PM (#35498650)
Heh. That’s a good trick.

I am not “athletic” though :)