People err on different sides of issues. Some people struggle to get things done, other people struggle with a kind of productivity obsession. How people on the opposite sides of that spectrum cope is obviously going to be quite different and unhelpful to their counterparts.

Like how some people talk to me in response to my attempts at losing weight. I don’t have body image issues or an eating disorder, i don’t need to kind of self confidence or gentle speech someone in that situation needs. I’m just slightly overweight because I had too many cheeseburgers in Covid times. Different problems need different solutions.