Nah, I’m just saying that our experiences are going to wildly differ and my recommendation is to plan for the worst. Please don’t take my comments as anything other than that, and I absolutely did not intend it as a personal attack.

If you’ve worked at amazing orgs that value commitment and will take care of folks in return, I am genuinely happy for you. I’ve looked into the abyss, and that is where my advice comes from. I wish everyone a better experience than that, but if you rely on trust alone, you’re going to have a bad time.