Both Google and Amazon have researched this topic and the results are readily available. First link I found: https://www.thinkwithgoogle.com/marketing-strategies/app-and...
Why do you think there some much time and effort going into improving performance of computing in general. Facebook Lite, android go, GPU's, cpu improvements, 5g, etc.
The important caveat is that once it's fast enough the gains are marginal.
But if you are still at the stage in product development where adding features will increase your addressable market by tens or hundreds of percents (which doing things like ‘supporting multiple European languages’ or ‘adding google login’ can do) then those performance gains are not where engineering investment needs to go.
I use Vim and I use VSCode. There is little debate about which has better performance and which has more features. It's also easy to see which has more users.
Based off how slow every SaaS service is in the B2B space, performance isn't important in all scenarios.
Products almost never compete on performance, and the biggest, most popular ones are almost always the slower ones.
Regardless of your anecdotal evidence, there is a reason why this sentiment is prevalent in the industry - because PMs and devs who thought otherwise were quickly outcompeted by those that moved faster and released more features.