For example, land mines, machine gun emplacements, and chemical weapons can be effective forms of home defense. An intruder would have access to the same equipment, but at least the playing field is level, right? However, an attacker would also be able to inflict astounding mass casualties in moments with this equipment.
On the other side, if the most effective self defense weapon available is a kitchen knife, the playing field is not very level, and a weak victim can be overpowered by an attacker or intruder. However, the ability to inflict mass casualty is greatly limited.
So, I don’t have a specific level to prescribe, but I would start the discussion by framing the decision as a balance between these two elements.
Unfortunately the tools we have currently aren't great at that.
Landmines in the garden it is then. Hard to use offensively.