> Now that I'm in the system, the other stark reality is that little of this system design matters. Most of the challenge is understanding the internal technologies and figuring out who to talk to to get stuff done (like pretty much every big company).

Having been on the "support" side of an engineering (supporting teams building product features) the thing I've noticed is that if you don't maintain a certain "density" of people with these system design skills things start to go off the rails. People start showing up with designs resting on some very fundamental misunderstandings or designed with no eye towards simplicity and things turn dysfunctional quickly.

It's worth noting that there are also better and worse designed system design interviews. Good ones give space to demonstrate "taste" as well as technical chops.