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Re:Rekindling (on my experience with burnout) by rdl on Thursday January 19, 2012 @02:10AM (#3483506)
You fail at vacationing, IMO, if you just do a week or so at a tourist resort in a tourist destination. Just based on seeing a lot of people who do very stressful work for a few months or years (I know a lot, thanks to war zone contracting and startupsa). The people who do a week and then back aren't as happy long term as the people who run away for up to a year.

To really recover, it is better to live like a local somewhere for a longer period of time. Assuming you are really burned out, it isn't like you are getting real work done anyway. You can also ease back into working from a remote location after a few weeks or months, maybe on another project.

Plenty of places where you can do this cost effectively (under $25 per day), the key being getting out of the tourist economy.

Re:Rekindling (on my experience with burnout) by richardburton on Thursday January 19, 2012 @02:29AM (#3483546)
What an insensitive comment. You fail at vacationing. The man was trying to recover.
Re:Rekindling (on my experience with burnout) by tristanstraub on Thursday January 19, 2012 @05:52AM (#3483953)
I think the way he said it wasn't directed at anyone in particular. It was just an observation that one week vacation isn't enough. I think he might have been suggesting that the guy should holiday for longer...

I've plodded through a miserable couple of years and am certain I'm burnt out. I've just handed in notice for my job, and know for certain that one week won't remove the feeling of work life AND home life sucking.

As humans, we bring meaning to whatever we choose. Nothing really has meaning except through the wiring in our brains. It's unfortunate that we concentrate so much on making money, that we don't concentrate on those things that would eliminate the need for it at all.

Re:Rekindling (on my experience with burnout) by rdl on Thursday January 19, 2012 @11:05PM (#3488261)
The other thing is you can probably put up with difficult work OR home, IFF the other is excellent. If both are stressed (and working with a relationship partner makes this more likely), it's really hard.

Maybe personal health (physical and psychological) is the third leg. ONE of the three can be compromised for a while, but if you compromise two, you'll end up losing all three pretty quickly.

Re:Rekindling (on my experience with burnout) by nkohari on Thursday January 19, 2012 @02:15PM (#3486103)
I read it as the popular internet phrase ("you fail at X") rather than an attack, so I didn't take it personally. :)

Even if it was intended as an attack, it's not the most offensive response I've received to the post by a long shot.

Re:Rekindling (on my experience with burnout) by cims on Thursday January 19, 2012 @02:29AM (#3483545)
I think short term vacationing is fine for preventing burn-out, but yes I agree to recover fully from burn-out a longer term holiday would be ideal (though obviously not everyone has this luxury.)
Re:Rekindling (on my experience with burnout) by marquis on Thursday January 19, 2012 @09:35AM (#3484594)
I understand what you mean and think I can elaborate: if I take a holiday to a nice hotel where everything is managed for me, I'll invariably spend some time thinking about work instead of relaxing. However if I take a vacation that is more exploratory in nature and involves either physical activity (hiking in a mountainous environment for example) or going somewhere that is outside of my comfort boundaries (say, a week in the jungle of Chiapas) my mind is focused 100% on where I am.

This is a real holiday: not just letting the body take a break but the mind.

Re:Rekindling (on my experience with burnout) by rdl on Thursday January 19, 2012 @11:07PM (#3488265)
Yeah -- maybe a package trip somewhere which DOES include a lot of daily activities (like a structured hike, hunt, photo safari, etc.) would be the best compromise. Someone else plans everything for you, but you still have to actually do it yourself.
Re:Rekindling (on my experience with burnout) by marquis on Friday January 20, 2012 @08:14AM (#3489327)
An adventure, basically!
Re:Rekindling (on my experience with burnout) by nkohari on Thursday January 19, 2012 @02:16PM (#3486107)
You're right. We just didn't want to spend the time planning a vacation (which had previously been a blocker to us actually going)... so we went to an all-inclusive resort that we could just push a button and book it.
Re:Rekindling (on my experience with burnout) by rdl on Thursday January 19, 2012 @06:47PM (#3487518)
Maybe it is a good start, but you should take another longer vacation too.
Re:Rekindling (on my experience with burnout) by nagnatron on Thursday January 19, 2012 @02:21AM (#3483528)
I've just been to India for a month. You can live there for 15$ a day.
Re:Rekindling (on my experience with burnout) by ido on Thursday January 19, 2012 @04:25AM (#3483781)
Actually you can live in India for a lot less than that (even as a comfy tourist - although I guess you definition of comfy changes with age).