Force With Lease says "I believe X is true, and because of that, force". The tool can check that X is indeed true, and if so force, but if it's not true the human was wrong and they ought to re-consider and obtain a new "lease" before we make the change.

In Git this "lease" is the current ref of a remote, if we specify this, but actually it's wrong, that means the state of the remote system has changed, and we need to re-consider whether our forced change is still appropriate. e.g. While you and Bill were quickly changing colors.js to hackily disable dark mode, turns out Sarah guessed the actual bug, and replaced main.css with a patched version that works fine even in dark mode, if you force-push your change, instead of zapping the broken change it zaps Sarah's fix!

This approach works best where you can actually take some sort of "lock" and avoid clashes at the tool level, but there's some benefit even without that at the human level.