Personally I value the web as a knowledge store that persists.
Use a non-logged chat service if you want a transient medium.
I wonder how many people have that reflex. I personally don’t.
If people find a visit to Reddit to be unpalatable, may I suggest this highly spooky website link? https://cryptome.org/2012/07/gent-forum-spies.htm
I wonder if the reason why people find hacker news to be so pleasant, is the subconsciously edgy non conformist website name, like its something to brag about at middle class dinner soiree's or a person in the street like a passive aggressive superiority boast, where its predominantly focused on science and technology subjects, in which to fuel the Ego driven quest for knowledge.
Would that be fair?
And yes I've been ruining the deceitful magic of Father Xmas not being real since I was 5 years old.
My kingdom for an ignore-list.
I don't need to know who you actually are, but over time interacting with other people here I've started to get a feel for several hundred accounts. This makes HN more pleasant because I have some sense of what sort of person they are to talk with, and what is likely to go well or poorly. When there have been subreddits I was really into, I would start to get a sense for the more prolific commenters there too.
If I regularly attended some sort of social club and it was common for people to replace their faces I would find it frustrating as well.