Modern feminism is very odd, and is the reason I no longer call myself a feminist. The gist appears to be that men - and anything associated with masuculinity - is not ok, unless you're attractive. In addition, women are independent but also need constant protection, assumedly from said attractive masculine men.

It's not hard to see how incel culture rose up and why people like Andrew Tate have so much support. Turns out chickens come home to roost.