Re:Ask HN: Employers, why do you want us back in the office?
by koliber on Sunday February 05, 2023 @03:03PM
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Have you ever received constructive feedback that did not feel like criticism?
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Re:Ask HN: Employers, why do you want us back in the office?
by silveroriole on Sunday February 05, 2023 @03:27PM
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Yes, especially from clients/customers. Most manager feedback, though, is of the form “you need to/should do X.” If you press them on HOW to do X, they often don’t really know, especially when it comes to soft skills issues or personality clashes. They see their role as providing the feedback, and it’s your job to figure out how to fix it. It feels like criticism because you’re left with the critical part and no clear path forwards. Of course knowing the problem exists provides SOME value, but I wouldn’t call it mentorship, guidance, or even constructive.