1) Misgendering, usually out of ignorance. foone is aggressively agender and goes by they/them.

2) Someone correcting the misgendering.

3) The same circular discussion of why foone doesn't like being posted to HN.

4) The same circular discussion of pronouns and the culture war.

5) Culture warriors come out and do their thing and often get their comments flagged and sometimes, though not nearly often enough, get banned.

6) Many of these posts get nuked. Both yours and mine are likely candidates.

It's a guaranteed pattern and foone got sick of it long ago and has asked that submissions of their stuff be banned here. That hasn't happened and thus the cycle will continue endlessly as long as foone does cool shit.