So you think it’s not destructive for someone to not Resist unwanted advances because doing so might mean they don’t have food to put in the table?

Consensual peer level dating is not a problem in the US either. The issue arises when there is a power differential between the 2 partners. And I don’t know what sad little country you live in where one cannot meet anyone outside work, but doing so is not difficult for me in the U.S. at all.