> to the point that I assume the DoD and military are acutely aware that the drones aren't really interchangeable, and that at every level they cultivate people under them they know "get shit done" and hand the important projects to them.

Within military troops, yes. That's an active goal, especially on the officer side where the whole career path is pointed towards increasing levels of responsibility and leadership. The problem is not in the troops, but in the program offices.

I was on a spectacularly failed Waterfall (big-W, they were explicit about what they were doing) where they handed the task of managing a large, multi-billion dollar software system (from the DOD side) to a 1st Lt history major. She had no preparation for the role. Software acquisition in DOD is, mostly, a clusterfuck. I felt bad for her because she legitimately did not know anything more than the basic legal and financial side of things, she had no technical comprehension and had to trust people (contractors) who were lying about the system status and quality (what was delivered, after she had moved on, was years late and had a fraction of the target capabilities).

Program offices are not generally composed of people who have real-world experience with software development. Remarkably they have great engineers, good finance people, but the software person (often singular, even in programs that are almost exclusively composed of software systems) is usually not from a software background or a straight out of college EE major (more often than not, occasionally a CS major).