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Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by kbos87 on Tuesday January 24, 2023 @01:02AM (#34499970)
I am really of two minds about this. On one hand, yes, the suggestion that I leave a tip and the amount suggested has ballooned to a ridiculous level in some businesses.

On the other hand, I recognize that there are plenty of businesses that still don't offer a way to tip at all (Starbucks until very recently), and more importantly, that none of these employees make anywhere near a living wage. Having worked service industry jobs and found my way out, I can't help but thinking that most of these jobs are merely dark patterns that take advantage of people who can't or won't demand what they actually should be paid.

The unfortunate conclusion I've arrived at is that US consumers simply aren't willing to pay the true price for many of the things they enjoy on a day to day basis. Just one example is that their daily coffee is subsidized through the misery of minimum wage coffee shop employees.

You say you pay a "higher wage" - what does that actually equate to for someone working 40 hours a week?

Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by LudwigNagasena on Tuesday January 24, 2023 @01:15AM (#34500059)
> Just one example is that their daily coffee is subsidized through the misery of minimum wage coffee shop employees.

Your everything is "subsidized" by low wages of people living in third world countries. US coffee shop employees aren't quite near the bottom of that hierarchy.

Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by kbos87 on Tuesday January 24, 2023 @01:22AM (#34500113)
100% true but doesn’t invalidate their situation. If we follow that logic to its end, there’s always someone in worse shape who is also further removed from those who have the ability to make a difference.
Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by LudwigNagasena on Tuesday January 24, 2023 @05:16PM (#34511345)
Do you think you have no ability to make a difference for them?
Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by kbos87 on Tuesday January 24, 2023 @01:23AM (#34500119)
I don’t disagree, but are you suggesting that we shouldn’t act to solve a problem just because it isn’t the worst possible problem? Feels like a convenient out.
Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by xp84 on Tuesday January 24, 2023 @01:16AM (#34500064)
> none of these employees make anywhere near a living wage

> the misery of minimum wage coffee shop employees.

i don't know, TONS of people make way less than baristas and other counter-service workers. Lots of the customers of those baristas make similar wages as they do. Why does the barista deserve that money more? The maids at a hotel make less than a Starbucks barista, and there's no way they get significant tips especially at the cheaper places.

Tipping baristas and other counter-service workers who are NOT paid below minimum wage might make some progressives feel generous and virtuous, but it isn't solving any problems in a fair and equitable way. It's raising people's expectations -- in CERTAIN occupations only -- that they deserve $2 per customer for setting a cup on a counter and hollering your number.

Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by rtpg on Tuesday January 24, 2023 @02:23AM (#34500509)
I am sure every single person would rather be paid a consistent wage.

isn't the whole problem with tipping is that every role with tipping will lower the base pay in consideration of that? I would find it very hard to believe anyone receiving tips prefering that to just a stable matching income (except for some exceptional cases...)

And yeah, it turns out that people want to be paid more than minimum wage to be on their feet and dealing with customer orders all day long. I don't see why service people shouldn't be paid more than minimum wage!

Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by dragonwriter on Tuesday January 24, 2023 @02:25AM (#34500525)
> isn’t the whole problem with tipping is that every role with tipping will lower the base pay in consideration of that?

That’s a problem.

Another problem is that it is demonstrated to be a loophole through which unequal compensation on bases that would otherwise be unlawful for an employer are achieved.

Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by ztrww on Tuesday January 24, 2023 @04:44AM (#34501613)
> I am sure every single person would rather be paid a consistent wage

I’m certain that is not the case for many/most (depending on the area and establishment) tipped workers. Most waiters, baristas & bartenders certainly wouldn’t want to earn only slightly more than fast food workers even if the average wage goes up.

> will lower the base pay

Not in California and some other places (applies to at least 10-15% of the US population)

Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by rtpg on Tuesday January 24, 2023 @05:43AM (#34501992)
> Most waiters, baristas & bartenders certainly wouldn’t want to earn only slightly more than fast food workers even if the average wage goes up.

I don’t understand this argument. What I’m saying is to just take what the earnings were with wage + tips, and make it just wage. Literally not changing the total take home pay (I guess people don’t report tips though?)

Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by panda-giddiness on Tuesday January 24, 2023 @07:25AM (#34502731)
Unfortunately I doubt this would be a steady state solution. If restaurants were to implement this suggestion, they'd probably undercut each other's prices by significantly lowering the wage of their staff.
Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by carlosjobim on Tuesday January 24, 2023 @08:41PM (#34513269)
Business owners who don't pay their workers satisfactory wages will find nobody to work for them, lose customers and have to close. It's happening rapidly, worldwide, right now.
Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by panda-giddiness on Wednesday January 25, 2023 @06:15AM (#34516973)
Certainly there's a lower bound at which a business owner won't be able to staff their restaurant, but that lower bound isn't one penny less than the status quo. Rather, there's some shitty middle region, where employees are generally dissatisfied with their wages but not desperate enough to leave.
Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by carlosjobim on Wednesday January 25, 2023 @06:24AM (#34517025)
The world is changing more rapidly than ever and the attitudes of young workers (typically found in the hospitality industry) is completely different than just 10 years ago. Even the concept "desperate enough to leave" is alien: If a better opportunity shows up you switch, there is no question about it. Just like you yourself will pump gas at a station with a better price than the one you pumped gas in yesterday.

There is absolutely no reward for sticking with an employer in this industry, if another employer has a better offer it's goodbye.

Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by panda-giddiness on Tuesday January 24, 2023 @07:11AM (#34502608)
> Why does the barista deserve that money more?

I think you're conflating deserving that money more with deserving more money. Obviously the ideal solution would be to pay everyone better, but individuals are limited in their capacity to effect change. Eliminating tipping, absent a replacement, isn't fair either (except in the sense that all service workers would become equally poor).

Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by goodpoint on Tuesday January 24, 2023 @07:15AM (#34502638)
> make some progressives feel generous and virtuous

What evidence you have to back up this claim?

Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by paiute on Tuesday January 24, 2023 @09:36AM (#34504062)
Wow. this attitude is awful and sadly not that uncommon. I have a friend whose household income is around 400k, is an effective alturist, and tips 10% at restaurants because he thinks tipping is unfair. The only place you're really expected to tip is a restaurant - 15-20%. everything else is optional, but when you make a ton of money and have taken care of your own, you tip people well for the hard work they do for you. Seriously, most of on this site, if we've been working 10+ years should be giving a 20 to the handyman, or leaving $10 on the bed at the hotel.
Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by BigRedDog1669 on Tuesday January 24, 2023 @12:45PM (#34507117)
Why should you have to give your extra money to people in specific professions rather than give it to a family in Guatemala where it will go further?

Do you tip everyone you interact with? How do you know who to tip? That sounds exhausting.

Re:Is tipping getting out of control? Many consumers say yes by LudwigNagasena on Tuesday January 24, 2023 @08:30PM (#34513167)
What is awful about it?