Having one writer and multiple readers was fine, but even having a dozen writers who update something a few times per second quickly led to the DB becoming the bottleneck. I tried different modes, but saw no difference so I just gave up on using it concurrently.
There were 500MB-40G databases, probably ~1.5 updates per second at peak load?
Speaking of Wordpress though, that’s a pretty great example of a web app that typically handles almost exclusively reads. I’ll bet almost any Wordpress instance would work great on SQLite.
It's also really not a big switch for the most part. I'm not aware of that many MySQL-specific things happening in WP. Things like fulltext indexes aren't in core, so it's really just using a different driver to get the basics working. I'm sure it would break a lot of plugins, but that's fine, they have platform requirements anyhow, adding "does work with sqlite" isn't a huge step and can likely be automated to a high degree (if the plugin never uses wpdb->query, ->get_results etc, it's compatible).
If that node failed, then the php application and database would be restored to a new machine and traffic would resume?
I'm not talking about clusters and replication, just a single database on a single server, like Wordpress for example. It can handle large amounts of concurrent users if you're using InnoDB (which has been the default since how long?) and nobody will even notice that there's anyone else because it's not locking the table (or the whole database) to write, and you don't have to wait or deal with frequent busy timeouts.