In addition, it helps if you can immerse yourself in the game. Reloading feels as natural to me as actually reloading a gun with my hands. Steering a car feels like I'm moving a toy car with my hand. Visual and audio cues should be triggers to make your fingers move. You don't see the enemy as a character on the screen, the enemy is actually before you and you rotate to put him/her/it right in front of you. Racing is all about feeling, there are only two things, your speed and your trajectory, and you're adjusting to make them feel right.