Re:What’s the worst thing that can happen?
by grannyg00se on Sunday January 08, 2012 @07:39PM
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"Everyone and everything I love will die and be utterly forgotten in a few hundred years."
That one isn't really that bad though. Unless you are obsessed with leaving some kind of significant mark on humanity. For most of us, what is remembered and forgotten in a few hundred years is hardly relevant since we will be dead.
It seems absurd, but if you can't be happy and productive while accepting these thoughts, you weren't ever really happy; just in denial.
Sure, acceptance can lead to happiness. It can also lead to madness.
For an example of "dark buddhism", see Thomas Ligotti's "The Conspiracy against the Human Race".
http://www.amazon.com/Conspiracy-Against-Human-Race-Contriva...
However, Buddhist mindfulness really does predict that the only way to be happy is to contemplate, and accept, your most secret and horrific fears. Try, "No matter how hard I work, what I make will eventually fail and be replaced." Or maybe "Everyone and everything I love will die and be utterly forgotten in a few hundred years."
This is, in fact, practicing happiness. It seems absurd, but if you can't be happy and productive while accepting these thoughts, you weren't ever really happy; just in denial.