Re:Ask HN: I'm 40 and feel my mental ability declining. Prog...
by ixtli on Tuesday January 10, 2023 @10:22AM
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My girlfriend got sick and now I have a part time caring responsibility that’s mostly about doing chores and errands. I’m in better physical shape now and oddly feel more capable at my engineering job.
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Re:Ask HN: I'm 40 and feel my mental ability declining. Prog...
by DwnVoteHoneyPot on Tuesday January 10, 2023 @10:48AM
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While the chores isn't as fun as a hike, active rest is better than passive rest. Helps that it seems like you have a positive attitude to the chores.
Re:Ask HN: I'm 40 and feel my mental ability declining. Prog...
by ixtli on Tuesday January 10, 2023 @12:40PM
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I've never had an issue doing small chores but in the past i'd basically organized my life such that i avoided having to do as much ancillary stuff as possible. Now, whatever reservations i had before about repetitive shit like washing dishes by hand or running errands are gone because its for an immediate, greater purpose. And she really appreciates it :)
Re:Ask HN: I'm 40 and feel my mental ability declining. Prog...
by bcrosby95 on Tuesday January 10, 2023 @11:23AM
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This happened to me with kids. I've always been a lazy slob who plays video games in their spare time. By my late 30s I was starting to feel like a bag of garbage.
But when I had kids it forced me to move and do things. Now I feel better in my '40s than I did in my '30s.