No, for those people who would “ride for me” and vice versa I have loyalty and don’t mind helping them with money, but I’d expect to stay involved in their lives.

If they scuttle off, then they weren’t real at all, and I got played. I guess this supports OPs point, so I kinda get it.

However this group of people is not very large, most people I know aren’t getting money willy-nilly.