I also noticed your sleight of hand. "Greatest city in the world" includes Tokyo, Paris, Seoul. All far superior to NYC in almost every way, with similar issues of scale.
I love visiting Manhattan and Brooklyn, but frankly have a hard time imagining living there. And I live in SF, which is far from being an ideal city.
Staten Island (~475k) has the same population as Raleigh (~470k) and is a hair smaller than Atlanta (~500k). This isn’t a density argument. It’s an illustration of New York City’s scale. The forgotten borough is larger than most of our cities.
I'm forced to consider the likelihood that you are a typically provincial New Yorker with no real perspective on global megacities.
My Uber driver said that to me within the first ride of my landing, and I heard it again and again, from millenials, Gen X, Boomers, basically every type of person I met and from every walk of life, during the many years I lived there.
You guys play this game where you don't say what you mean, and you don't mean what you say, in any context where it's marginally convenient/inconvenient to do so. It's eat or be eaten in NYC. I would hope longtime residents like yourself are just BS'ing the HN community, and not actually delusional about the waters you swim in.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_United_States_urban_ar...
That's pointing to this spreadsheet hosted by the census:
https://www2.census.gov/geo/docs/reference/ua/2020_Census_ua...
But, if we go to this fact table, they give that ~470k number.
https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/fact/table/raleighcitynort...
Every borough except Staten Island is larger than San Francisco [1][2]. Manhattan together with Queens or Brooklyn is bigger than LA, the second-largest city in America. (Staten Island is about the size of Raleigh or Atlanta.)
New York solves problems at a scale no other American city comes close to imagining.
[1] https://www.nyc.gov/site/planning/planning-level/nyc-populat...
[2] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_United_States_cities...