Re:Young adults are struggling with their mental health
by UncleOxidant on Friday December 30, 2022 @08:45PM
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> if those children continue to live with their parents as they enter adulthood, since their parents will be able to help them as they adjust. (Supposedly this happens in Italy.)
I lived in Italy for a while and yes this does happen. Kids often continue to live with their parents well into their 30s. But this is mostly due to a shortage of new housing.
Re:Young adults are struggling with their mental health
by autoexec on Saturday December 31, 2022 @02:14AM
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> Kids often continue to live with their parents well into their 30s. But this is mostly due to a shortage of new housing.
That just seems really awkward. By their 30s people are often having kids of their own! Does italy have something like love hotels for teens and young adults who don't want to make out with their parents in the next room?
Re:Young adults are struggling with their mental health
by scajanus on Saturday December 31, 2022 @03:45AM
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I don't think Italians are that squeamish about sex. They would have sex and then join the family for breakfast.
Re:Young adults are struggling with their mental health
by skocznymroczny on Saturday December 31, 2022 @09:29AM
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Living in Europe this concept always seemed strange to me. I'm Polish and here it's normal to have couples living together while the parents are in the same house and even having sex together while parents are in the same house. There's no need to "hide" from the parents, you just ask them not to be disturbed for the next hour or two.
The idea seems to be that overprotective parenting of children isn't harmful if those children continue to live with their parents as they enter adulthood, since their parents will be able to help them as they adjust. (Supposedly this happens in Italy.)
Likewise, having children move out when they become adults isn't harmful if those children have grown up with the ability to live independently. (Supposedly this happens in Germany.)
The problem comes when you combine overprotective parenting with the norm that children should move out at a relatively young age. This leaves young adults both unprepared and on their own when they leave. (Supposedly this happens in the US.)