Still have some working iPad 1 chargers (fat lightning).
The other style is oval shaped, and those would obviously be incompatible.
And what's the worst that happens? I might eventually have to switch to normal, horrible cables, like you use every single day? Enjoy wearing out your cables and devices...
Aliexpress brands respectively uslion (x2) and elough.
Metal scraping flimsy metal contacts that are nigh-unrepairable is a hard lesson. Unfortunately it is also one that I seem to need to re-learn on a consistent basis.
I do like the suggestions of plastic or wood; that's probably a better idea as the material is softer. My spudger doesn't fit a USB port, sadly. IDK if a toothpick would, I'd never thought of that.
I try to be mindful of the actual connector's pads when I clean, so as to not scrape them.
I've cleaned mine with a needle several times without any issues. Being a little careful seems to suffice.
I've fixed ~4 phones by doing that.
This was a problem with USB micro, too.