I get what you are saying, but I was more talking about the weird "it's different when we do it" that I got from the comment I was replying to. It's weird to distance yourself from that "video games bad" (because it's been mocked to death) craze while using the same arguments and tactics.

As for voice chat, I guess it would make sense to put children and minors in age appropriate lobbies? That way they can just talk to each other.