Re:Ask HN: Has anyone here turned around their life in their...
by c0nsumer on Monday December 19, 2022 @10:42AM
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And A decent therapist is better than an ideal one. Just getting started talking to someone is key.
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Re:Ask HN: Has anyone here turned around their life in their...
by soheil on Monday December 19, 2022 @11:08AM
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It depends. If you're in a serious rut I seriously think a therapist could make it worse. You need the right fit who your brain is not going to dismiss the moment they open their mouth.
Re:Ask HN: Has anyone here turned around their life in their...
by theGnuMe on Monday December 19, 2022 @11:51AM
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How would you find the right therapist in that situation?
Re:Ask HN: Has anyone here turned around their life in their...
by cindarin on Monday December 19, 2022 @03:13PM
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that's the question, ain't it? Telling people to just suffer through terrible therapy probably ain't the answer
Re:Ask HN: Has anyone here turned around their life in their...
by theGnuMe on Monday December 19, 2022 @03:33PM
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I think the question to ask is: is this therapist helping me or not? If not move on to another one.
Re:Ask HN: Has anyone here turned around their life in their...
by c0nsumer on Monday December 19, 2022 @08:52PM
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What you're illustrating there is a self-perpetuating problem: the therapist I pick might not good, so I shouldn't talk to a therapist.
Starting to talk to someone is key; that gets the process rolling. Asking for help is the start, and after doing that if one doesn't get a satisfying answer, they can ask someone else. But if they never take that first step and try to ask, they've gone nowhere.
Re:Ask HN: Has anyone here turned around their life in their...
by runjake on Monday December 19, 2022 @10:55AM
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This is so true.
Re:Ask HN: Has anyone here turned around their life in their...
by DrNosferatu on Monday December 19, 2022 @12:14PM
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Indeed, the key concept is "good enough".