And just absolutely talking, 10-20k lines of code is never nothing. That's months if not years of coding, that has to maintained and expanded upon as your project grows.
Once you get used to writing recursive descent parsers you can bash them out quite quickly. You can write a mostly-working parser for a programming language in a few days. 10-20k lines of code might sound like quite a lot, but it's mostly repetitive code that's easy to get right and easy to write tests for.
Recursive descent parsers can often be easier to maintain than parser generator based parsers because you don't have to keep hacking around the limitations of the generator. For example, C and C++ don't permit any kind of clean separation between lexing, parsing and symbol resolution.
Even gcc's C parser and lexer combined are only about 30,000 LOC, depending on which files you count besides the main parser module: https://github.com/gcc-mirror/gcc/blob/master/gcc/c/c-parser... And this is code written in Cish C++. In a higher-level language it could be significantly more concise.
Is this what you had in mind? Which language is best in your opinion for a parser?
If you want to use parser combinators, then something with basic support for functional programming (particularly closures and and a lightweight lambda syntax).
Hand-written recursive descent parsers are quite commonly used in production compilers (e.g. GCC, Rust). See e.g. here: https://softwareengineering.stackexchange.com/questions/2546... They don’t seem to be particularly difficult to maintain.