Outside faang,twitter was famed to be a more relax place. its gone now after elon take over. stripe is famous for being aws 2.0. these are the places are either i worked at or have friends there. Also consider thr currently layoff is largely performance based
for wlb, 40-50 is the norm if u r good. if u are average, i dont think u can survive the ramp up in the first year with less than 50h per week. companies like amazon doesnt even give u time to ramp up.
But if u survive the first 2 year, u r probably fine. An 'average' employee in this sense will be vastly capable of dealing with the org chaos and oncall, and churn out the commits at the same time. The wlb will be much better if he is in a stable org. He will be more experienced in gaming the reviews too.
Once again, i never mentioned the quality of the candidates, i only talk the work and performance. i think most of the ppl are capable,just whether they really tried.
I think companies that went remote probably automatically shifted it up towards 50 as default, just because the home/work separation became more leaky.
(No data to back any of this up, but I’m still unconvinced that the FAANGs are anything special other than being big mega-corps)
It's highly competitive and demanding basically the opposite of what ppl going through in the regular school system right now.