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Re:No one wants to have kids anymore by toomuchtodo on Tuesday December 06, 2022 @11:57AM (#33883222)
First one required several rounds of IVF and a switch to a remote job to have the flexibility needed for such an endeavor, second one was unexpected. Got a vasectomy after the second.

Experience is what we get what when we don’t get what we expected.

Re:No one wants to have kids anymore by stanski on Tuesday December 06, 2022 @12:06PM (#33883412)
Interesting. You sound like me from the future or something, except we only had to do IUIs instead. No vasectomy yet but maybe this is a good warning.
Re:No one wants to have kids anymore by toomuchtodo on Tuesday December 06, 2022 @02:05PM (#33885318)
It’s $1000 to collect some semen and have it frozen for a few years (Reprotech is a cryoprovider I can recommend)). Vasectomies are cheap (<$1000 but free in a handful of states). Bank the tissue and get snipped is my advice. Buys you an option if you change your mind (call for a specimen and do IUI) but firmly insulates you from mistakes or decisions made under suboptimal conditions.