Fair enough, we could give the benefit of the doubt. We could look at BDSM culture as something that's central to gay culture (which I think is a cliché) and then deduce that because homosexuality doesn't start at age 18, it's not inappropriate to have children dress in fetish gear. Oh, and by the way, if you disagree that makes you a homophobe.

Personally, I believe that road leads down to the normalization of pedophilia, which is a stated goal of certain queer activists. I think we need boundaries, it's not actually helpful to "look the other way" and perform extravagant mental gymnastics to convince ourselves that it's not pedophilia when it looks like pedophilia.