And how now he repeatedly writes letters to the judge and warden asking to be let out, and in calls with family he doesn’t understand why he’s still there.
I'm guessing most of the people you've met are high functioning, so there's a bias in what your understanding of autism is
In more severe forms of autism a combination of learning disabilities and the inability to read facial expressions can make it hard to parse what is considered "horrible" for the people suffering from the condition
That does not mean they lack empathy or desires harm in others. The issue is that they need help and support parsing the environment around them
Of cause some might need to be denied access to certain things like knives or social media because their inability to understand could be a danger to their surroundings, but that's a situation for a minority of people with autism
I read that autistic people might have trouble reading the moods of others, not that they don't actually give a fuck.