I think maybe you and others have the wrong idea. Life isn’t like elementary school sports. You won’t always be included, there are no participation trophies, other people don’t care about you or your feelings.

Fulfillment in life is about what you can bring to the world, not the other way around.

Additionally, the only reason this is a talking point is the absence of any real struggles or oppression, so bored people invented some contrived, imagined grievances.

Watch how quickly this whole conversation stops once the western world faces some existential threat from a country like China.