Females learn early that broadcasting your feminity comes with risks, largely from males. I think some trans people don't have that qualm, and on the contrary find clear use of female correlating names affirming. I also think I.T. has a larger proportion of the sort of neuro-divergence that correlates strongly with gender identity transition. I don't know why that is, and finding out why seems to have been made taboo, and don't expect any different on HN.