Re:What not to say to someone who has just been laid off
by AnhTho_FR on Thursday November 17, 2022 @11:41AM
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I wrote the article - Thanks, means a lot to me!
Re:What not to say to someone who has just been laid off
by whydoyoucare on Thursday November 17, 2022 @12:09PM
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"...a phone call away" for cultures and ages that prefer speaking to texting. :-)
Re:What not to say to someone who has just been laid off
by AnotherGoodName on Thursday November 17, 2022 @03:17PM
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"Hey you up for meeting for a coffee this weekend?" works too.
It's also more concrete and proactive than telling them they can talk to you. The coffee chat situation allows more open conversation too.
Re:What not to say to someone who has just been laid off
by wentin on Thursday November 17, 2022 @01:40PM
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I don't like it personally. I feel it is exaggerated, especially the part "I don't have the right words" I would feel awkward if I were on the receiving end — I lost my job, not someone died. Maybe it is just me, I get awkward easily, for context.
Re:What not to say to someone who has just been laid off
by notRobot on Thursday November 17, 2022 @03:11PM
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There are no universally applicable "right words" for this (or many other situations), so sometimes "I do have the right words" are the right words because they do a good job at conveying the speaker's intent (of showing that they care and are there to help).
Re:What not to say to someone who has just been laid off
by js8 on Thursday November 17, 2022 @04:52PM
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Maybe instead of that sentence, if you really like them and would like to see them again, tell them you would like to see them again sometimes?
Re:What not to say to someone who has just been laid off
by nightski on Thursday November 17, 2022 @02:49PM
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I don't know for me it's just not necessary. I know who has my back already. This would just feel like pandering. I'd rather people didn't act like I suffered a traumatic life event. It's just a job after all.
Re:What not to say to someone who has just been laid off
by alach11 on Thursday November 17, 2022 @04:44PM
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For me something more appropriate might be:
"Hey, I heard about the news. Let me know if there's anything I can do to help, big or small."
Or for someone I'm close to:
"Heard you got laid off. That fucking sucks. How are you holding up?"
i like this