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Re:What not to say to someone who has just been laid off by fayalargeau on Thursday November 17, 2022 @11:37AM (#33641404)
> “Hey, I heard about the news. I don’t have the right words and please don’t feel obligated to reply. Just know that if I can do something, big or small, now or in the future, I’m just a text away.”

i like this

Re:What not to say to someone who has just been laid off by AnhTho_FR on Thursday November 17, 2022 @11:41AM (#33641492)
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Re:What not to say to someone who has just been laid off by whydoyoucare on Thursday November 17, 2022 @12:09PM (#33642062)
"...a phone call away" for cultures and ages that prefer speaking to texting. :-)
Re:What not to say to someone who has just been laid off by AnotherGoodName on Thursday November 17, 2022 @03:17PM (#33645000)
"Hey you up for meeting for a coffee this weekend?" works too.

It's also more concrete and proactive than telling them they can talk to you. The coffee chat situation allows more open conversation too.

Re:What not to say to someone who has just been laid off by wentin on Thursday November 17, 2022 @01:40PM (#33643524)
I don't like it personally. I feel it is exaggerated, especially the part "I don't have the right words" I would feel awkward if I were on the receiving end — I lost my job, not someone died. Maybe it is just me, I get awkward easily, for context.
Re:What not to say to someone who has just been laid off by notRobot on Thursday November 17, 2022 @03:11PM (#33644931)
There are no universally applicable "right words" for this (or many other situations), so sometimes "I do have the right words" are the right words because they do a good job at conveying the speaker's intent (of showing that they care and are there to help).
Re:What not to say to someone who has just been laid off by js8 on Thursday November 17, 2022 @04:52PM (#33646355)
Maybe instead of that sentence, if you really like them and would like to see them again, tell them you would like to see them again sometimes?
Re:What not to say to someone who has just been laid off by nightski on Thursday November 17, 2022 @02:49PM (#33644594)
I don't know for me it's just not necessary. I know who has my back already. This would just feel like pandering. I'd rather people didn't act like I suffered a traumatic life event. It's just a job after all.
Re:What not to say to someone who has just been laid off by alach11 on Thursday November 17, 2022 @04:44PM (#33646245)
For me something more appropriate might be:

"Hey, I heard about the news. Let me know if there's anything I can do to help, big or small."

Or for someone I'm close to:

"Heard you got laid off. That fucking sucks. How are you holding up?"