I am an ardent user of 1password and can do all the tasks you desire:

- I frequently add notes to the logins / items I've created (adding information about security questions or why I created an account to begin with) - I add tags to every single item in 1password, detailing if it relates to a "website", "app", for "personal" or "work", etc... - The primary presentation of items _is_ in a list

I would highly recommend you review 1password as perhaps you have not used it in some time or were using something else.