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Re:Ask HN: How to deal with burn out whilst in probationary ... by 28304283409234 on Wednesday October 26, 2022 @03:08AM (#33340685)
Get a babysitter asap. Dad of two speaking here. Do it. Day care. Throw money at the problem. Get breathing room.

Your prime directive is to take care of YOU, since YOU are needed to be able to take care of the rest.

Re:Ask HN: How to deal with burn out whilst in probationary ... by 28304283409234 on Wednesday October 26, 2022 @03:11AM (#33340693)
Also: start seeing couples therapist. Learn about personal boundaries (boundary boss podcast and book).

Learn about co-dependency.