I hear you. I'm in the same boat with a game I just released on the XBox, piniq (http://marketplace.xbox.com/en-US/Product/piniq/66acd000-77f...). I tried submitting a story about it here and it vanished pretty quickly (http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3320826)

If I come across a magic bullet and find success, I'll be sure to share it.