Re:Why Did Comedy Die?
by 34675904565 on Monday October 24, 2022 @11:42AM
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I don't find any gender's "locker-room talk" funny and would rather not hear it at all, but if one gender's version of it is on Netflix, the other's should also be.
I think casual sexism is harmful, but I think unidirectional casual sexism is likely much more harmful.
Re:Why Did Comedy Die?
by DontchaKnowit on Monday October 24, 2022 @03:26PM
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Eh Idk I think that an arms race of sexism might be pretty awful
Re:Why Did Comedy Die?
by 34675904565 on Tuesday October 25, 2022 @04:58AM
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It wouldn't be an arms race, it would just be treating everyone equally, albeit equally poorly. Unbalanced sexism looks more like an arms race as the those who are in the victim group will try to reverse the roles, and if they succeed, the new victim group will try the same. By far the most common justification for sexism seem to be perceived unfairness and sexism by others.
I was kind of miffed that she thought it was so funny and then I remembered all the moments of "locker-room talk" that me and my friends get up to. It's not like we are overtly sexist on purpose but you know how that shit is. I realized that I find that pretty funny depending on the context but she definitely wouldn't. It was good to hear her laugh for about an hour so I can deal with smiling along quietly.
Based on this I'll make the claim that comedy is deeply personal, it's ok that some comedy is not "for you" and as more people of different backgrounds make comedy you'll see more and more things you don't like and that's fine.