Re:Tell HN: The regret of parenting and how to handle it
by neeleshs on Wednesday October 19, 2022 @08:24AM
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Hmm.. I've done all that and have a child and lost dear ones. And none of that has really changed me as a person, but each one has had a profound impact on my life (except buying a house).
As the parent comment says, they are just different and everyone has their own way of processing major events.
Meh. I'm married, bought multiple houses, moved country. I don't know how many major life decisions you can make but none of them have changed me in the way merely expecting a child already has. I expect when they're born will reveal the next 90% of that transition.