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Re:Ask HN: What's Your Biggest Regret? by andrejandre on Friday October 07, 2022 @09:17AM (#33120844)
You will find your people. You looked underneath a stone not many people turn over.

I don't have such a drug story, but I do feel like an alien often. I tend to only be capable of socializing with people who deeply align with my goals and ambitions. Those being: calisthenics, software, fitness, coding, cooking, being organized, etc.

I don't give myself a hard time for seeking a 'strata' of people, etc.

Be selective. Find the people only you want. Be an alien.

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Re:Ask HN: What's Your Biggest Regret? by amorriscode on Monday October 17, 2022 @08:21PM (#33241420)
Fellow alien here. Agree with Andre. Just embrace who you are and give it time. You've got a lot of life left to live and plenty of time to find fellow aliens to hang with.
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