With a withdrawn self, how can there be a personal failing? My point is that people don't attack her specifically, it's just the way society is. Criticism works for society because people with a self choose which criticism they accept and which they ignore.

People cannot imagine her withdrawn self and thus cannot adjust their criticism and she cannot imagine a self or bring back her self for now and thus doesn't understand most people.

>which is: they cannot hear me, and i cannot hear them. and funnily enough i’m trying to hear them and i’m trying to listen but no one’s trying to listen to me, so why should i keep trying?

Question remains: How can a withdrawn self be brought back?

> Neuroscience shows that this is not the case, and that those with schizoid personality disorders have true physiological and neurological differences.

Sure, but you assume that the physiological and neurological differences exist in themselves when you could also say that are causal, due to the abuse/neglect. The effects on ones mind from negative life experiences would have to have a physical manifestation in the brain in order to create the patterns of disordered behavior of course. If they are caused by negative life experiences, then they could also be reversible.

Normies have more negative experiences as they are more susceptible to manipulation to their detriment. So why not reverse them?

This is true, as a broad statement at least. I can claim no expertise in the area, so I can't comment on the potential to reverse any such changes.

It is also possible that they are not caused by negative life experiences, and are somehow inherent in the organization of a particular person's brain.

Of course. But I think it's quite common to claim that one's problems in life are incontrovertible when they are not. You stated it as a fact when we really don't know

Just because something is caused by experience doesn't necessarily mean more experience can completely reverse it.