Re:Silicon Valley has a mental health crisis too (2019)
by roflc0ptic on Tuesday September 27, 2022 @09:28PM
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Yeah dating novice therapists is bad because they are still trying on the tools and they’ve got a neophytes zeal, dating experienced therapists is bad because they’ve integrated the tools so much that it’s hard recognize when they’re pulling them out. Being wrong and very skillful at pushing your viewpoint can feel pretty isomorphic to gaslighting in the right circumstances.
Re:Silicon Valley has a mental health crisis too (2019)
by roflc0ptic on Tuesday September 27, 2022 @09:29PM
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Tho upside is they sometimes have good self knowledge and insight into other people. Naturally YMMV on all points
For what it's worth, my therapist felt pretty genuine. One thing that helped is to actually ask about his day, and how he's been. I think he was surprised I cared.
Another thing that helps is that BetterHelp makes it effortless to try out someone new. Maybe we've been lucky, but me and two other people haven't needed this feature; we all stuck with the first one we matched with. But it's there if you need it.