Most of the above design ideas are found only in pre Modern C++ books. I don't know of any newer books which actually teach multi-paradigm design using Modern C++. So you will have to read the older books and then think about how you would map the same ideas into Modern C++. You might find the following useful;
Pre Modern C++:
1) Multi-Paradigm Design for C++ by James Coplien.
2) Scientific and Engineering C++: An Introduction With Advanced Techniques and Examples by John Barton & Lee Nackman.
3) Advanced C++ Programming Styles and Idioms by James Coplien.
4) Modern C++ Design: Generic Programming and Design Patterns Applied by Andrei Alexandrescu.
Modern C++:
1) Functional Programming in C++: How to improve your C++ programs using functional techniques by Ivan Cukic.
For learning Modern C++, you might find these recommendations useful: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=32884432
Might you or someone else recommend a resource that does explain which features are suited for each the programming paradigms C++ support? Is there a modern resource that does teach it correctly like this? Knowing what features are relevant to your paradigm seems like a good way to approach learning C++.