Yeah, understood. I think we both know Rust people face a lot of the same level of criticism. And I get it. It's no fun. However, I don't think the way forward is to present the worst possible form of the argument (a strawman, "Rust people think Rust solves all problems", or, a vibe level: us vs them, "Rust people are toxic").
If I wanted, I could rake some C++ people over the coals for being toxic right now, and not just re: Rust, because C++ has more than a few hard core jerks. But whataboutism is just not helpful. I'm more interested in something more substantive/constructive.
The self proclaimed intentions or excitement of people has no bearing on whether or not the environment they create is toxic.
I strongly disagree with this sentiment for lots of reasons. Most significantly, because who is to say who created the environment? This is a lesser form of debate sometimes used in American politics, and I'd prefer not to engage in it -- "Rs did Y first, so we Ds are completely justified in doing X."
Moreover, your characterization of anti-Rust folks as somehow "victims" is fundamentally ridiculous. Get a grip.
This isn't leadership. This is nursing resentment.
Narrator: He didn't know what he was doing.
Moreover, "toxic", to me, is not well-meaning, generally positive people excited about something legitimately technically interesting and new. "Toxic" is repeated flimsy arguments ("Just write better code..." and "Modern C++ doesn't have these issues..." and "Rust doesn't fix ALL BUGS so why even bother?"), mole hill matters of taste ("Egads! The syntax!"), and drive by hype hate (I'm glad the hype has died down enough for Forth to be usable).
I gag on this "toxic" line every time I read it, because it usually also includes a boring, retrogressive, small beer, almost American politics-style argument. The joke that comes to mind is we are about 15 minutes from someone claiming "The coastal elites want to force you to use Rust." Yesterday, I saw two comments, one of which claimed Rust was a conspiracy against C++ programmers, another that admitted anti-Rust fervor was about resentment. The energy is they don't want you to win. They are keeping you down. Just yuck.